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About her
I am an intelligent , gentle and easy going person (but can be feisty) and believe that you should treat people how you expect them to treat you. Some friends say i am bubbly and others say vivacious but i can also be serious, thoughtful and considerate. So good values and upbringing helps. I value people for themselves but expect the same back.
I am an easy going person with a busy life and so only want to spend time with people I really like.
I like the arts eg theatre, cinema, galleries and museums, walking by the sea, eating out and all that stuff but prefer popular music rather than classical as it can be more fun and lighter and I find classical music makes me fall asleep. But I like musicals.
I have an eclectic choice when it comes to music and films. I love all sorts of things French, Italian.
I like to dance eg salsa but regretably not had much time recently. Would also like to learn to tango. So do you think you could make a good dance partner ? Not essential but would be nice as they say relationships can be like a dance? I want a dance of joy and happiness with someone special.
I am looking for someone I like to spend time with and whose company makes me happy and relaxed and able to be myself. I am comfortable with my own company but would like to find someone special. Someone who supports me and likes me just the way I am and vice versa.
I am pretty old fashioned in many ways but that does not mean boring as I think stability at the centre gives one more freedom to be able to reach one's dreams. I am hard working and have always loved my job and had an interesting career and life but not had the conventional success as first marriage and divorce was very damaging to my career. I am not perfect but I am caring and kind, and I do like my personal freedom so will not mind having some time on my own as quite happy with my own company. And I do like to laugh. I have no desire to be miserable so am looking for someone to be happy with.
Would love a family but do not think it will happen now.
About her ideal match
I will keep it simple: must have a visible photo and someone at my level and who had a loving upbringing like me and is secure in himself like me, especially in terms of feeling secure in who you are and comfortable in your own skin. I want someone emotionally stable and emotionally mature and hopefully also financially secure. Not chaotic or hyperactive or erratic and no mind games or passive aggressive moves. Just honest, open, warm,genuine.
Someone kind, caring and with good character, intelligent and well educated and has his own opinions but hopefully not too off the wall. I can relax easily in the right company or on my own. Someone at my level and who likes doing some of the same things would be nice, like art galleries and museums and walking by the sea or whatever we fancy doing. I prefer someone who is kind and caring I do not think intelligence and kindness are mutually exclusive. In fact I think it is totally unnecessary for people to be sarcastic or mean to others. I would like someone affectionate and passionate and happy to kiss and cuddle when we are BOTH in the mood and able to have a good time without needing to put anyone down. Someone who likes eating out and going to the theatre and is happy to have time to go to gym or sports or wherever so I can have some me time to paint my nails or just catch up with friends etc.
Nobody inconsiderate or selfish or hypercritical or judgemental either please! It's one thing to be like that at work but at home I want someone who can take off their armour and just be nice.But I have found people who are like that at work are the same at home too and that is the problem as one needs to be able to take one's defences down at home and feel safe and be able to relax. But that takes mutual trust and respect. So are you emotionally whole,stable and secure enough to build a loving relationship? Of course let's start with friendship and a coffee and see if we click as there is no way of knowing what connection we may make unless we meet.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Portsmouth, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Other | |
Religion: |
Sikh |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district PO1 (Portsmouth) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
30 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Philosophical; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Business news |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Swimming |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
Less than once a week |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
