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About him
I was diagnosed with Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis in 2007. Have 4 long term male and 4 long term female friends (met all of them between 1989 and 2005), they'll describe me as modest but also kind and caring (and maybe so boring, I make Teletubbies look like an action movie!).
Carers visit 4 times a day, but I spend nearly all of my time indoors. But I did go to 5 concerts between 2010 and 2014 (Alicia Keys, Sade, Janet Jackson, Lisa Stansfield, Dionne Warwick), but really struggled to get in and out of the car the last two concerts I've been to. Spend a lot of time on the internet including on Facebook and youtube.
I've only had one permanent paid job in my life - working as Administrator (2000-2008). I physically attended work for 6 years and 5 months in my life doing paid work, plus 10 months unpaid work (saying all this as a few people I've met think I've never done a day's work in my whole entire life).
About his ideal match
My ideal match would be a woman between 20 and 40 years old, but not too bothered about her age, race or religion. She's got to tolerate how grumpy I look and am in general! I've been to cinemas, concerts and restaurants in the last 10 years (despite of my disability), would like to do so again with a potential girlfriend as I've done this with all 4 female friends!
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Waltham Forest (London), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/Caribbean descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
20 - 40 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Mild; Realistic; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Disabilities: |
I struggle with mobility |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read newspapers occasionally |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; News; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Internet; Music; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Football (Soccer); Tennis |
Cooking: |
I can't or won't cook |
Food: |
Chinese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |
