ModestGuy

48 – Waltham Forest (London), London, England

Looking for romance (but have Multiple Sclerosis and use a wheelchair!)

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Waltham Forest (London), London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
48
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 8" (173cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Black
Eye colour:
Black
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
A long-term relationship
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
Secondary
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the United Kingdom
Gender:
Female
Age range:
20 - 40
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Disabled; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I was diagnosed with Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis in 2007. Have 4 long term male and 4 long term female friends (met all of them between 1989 and 2005), they'll describe me as modest but also kind and caring (and maybe so boring, I make Teletubbies look like an action movie!).

Carers visit 4 times a day, but I spend nearly all of my time indoors. But I did go to 5 concerts between 2010 and 2014 (Alicia Keys, Sade, Janet Jackson, Lisa Stansfield, Dionne Warwick), but really struggled to get in and out of the car the last two concerts I've been to. Spend a lot of time on the internet including on Facebook and youtube.

I've only had one permanent paid job in my life - working as Administrator (2000-2008). I physically attended work for 6 years and 5 months in my life doing paid work, plus 10 months unpaid work (saying all this as a few people I've met think I've never done a day's work in my whole entire life).

About his ideal match

My ideal match would be a woman between 20 and 40 years old, but not too bothered about her age, race or religion. She's got to tolerate how grumpy I look and am in general! I've been to cinemas, concerts and restaurants in the last 10 years (despite of my disability), would like to do so again with a potential girlfriend as I've done this with all 4 female friends!

What His Friends Say

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Average
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Cautious; Easygoing; Mild; Realistic; Thoughtful
Valued qualities:
Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Disabilities:
I struggle with mobility
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul
Reading:
I read newspapers occasionally
TV habits:
I watch television every day
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; News; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Internet; Music; Shopping
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Athletics; Football (Soccer); Tennis
Food
Cooking:
I can't or won't cook
Food:
Chinese
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Chilled
Time at work:
I don't work
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got brothers
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like them at the zoo
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement plans:
Enjoying the comforts of home
Feelings about using Smooth Singles:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Very