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In His Own Words
About him
I enjoy travelling, going to markets and car boot sales, weekends away and a nice drive with a pub lunch, going to the theatre and cinema, dining in and out, I play grass bowls and am learning bridge, would like to dance but have 2 left feet lol,I am into volunteering,I dislike confrontation but had hold my opinions up, I think my friends would say that I am dependable and a bit of a joker, my glass is always half full and I can hold a conversation with anyone, I am a good mix in any company
About his ideal match
I am open minded and do not put people in groups, we all have good points and can do things or have habits that annoy others, to me it is looking past these and finding a mutual balance, by all means discuss your likes and dislikes of each other and both change perhaps very slightly to accommodate each other.
As I said above communication is a must, tell each other whats is not working, trust in each other is paramount, do not keep silent if you think what you say will annoy your partner if it does find out why. share all my interests and try hers, lying is a deal breaker unless she explains to your satisfaction the reason for the lies
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Irvine, Ayrshire, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
83 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district KA11 (Irvine) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
60 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Childish |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have a visual impairment; I have a hearing impairment |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Opera; Rock; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Card games; Computer & video games; Internet; Music; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Baseball; Basketball; Bowling; Bowls; Hang- / Paragliding |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Gastro Pub; Indian; Pub Grub |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
