col41

83 – Irvine, Ayrshire, Scotland

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col41

83 – Irvine, Ayrshire, Scotland

widower seeking friendship and companion for outings

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In His Own Words

About him

I enjoy travelling, going to markets and car boot sales, weekends away and a nice drive with a pub lunch, going to the theatre and cinema, dining in and out, I play grass bowls and am learning bridge, would like to dance but have 2 left feet lol,I am into volunteering,I dislike confrontation but had hold my opinions up, I think my friends would say that I am dependable and a bit of a joker, my glass is always half full and I can hold a conversation with anyone, I am a good mix in any company

About his ideal match

I am open minded and do not put people in groups, we all have good points and can do things or have habits that annoy others, to me it is looking past these and finding a mutual balance, by all means discuss your likes and dislikes of each other and both change perhaps very slightly to accommodate each other.
As I said above communication is a must, tell each other whats is not working, trust in each other is paramount, do not keep silent if you think what you say will annoy your partner if it does find out why. share all my interests and try hers, lying is a deal breaker unless she explains to your satisfaction the reason for the lies

What His Friends Say

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Irvine, Ayrshire, Scotland
Gender:
Male
Age:
83
Star sign:
Pisces
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district KA11 (Irvine)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
60 - 80
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 2" (189cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Above Average; Below Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Slightly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Childish
Intelligence:
Average
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance
Favourite clothing:
My pyjamas
Favourite colour:
Purple
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear bifocals
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have a visual impairment; I have a hearing impairment
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Opera; Rock; Scottish
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Variety shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns
Interests:
Acting; Card games; Computer & video games; Internet; Music; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
American Football; Baseball; Basketball; Bowling; Bowls; Hang- / Paragliding
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Chinese; Fast food; Gastro Pub; Indian; Pub Grub
Dietary Restrictions:
Diabetic; Sugar-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I'm retired
Pastimes of choice:
Volunteering
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like them Well Done ;)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
In the country
Retirement plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Feelings about using Smooth Singles:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely