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RayJ4

61 – Barnet, London, England

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In His Own Words

About him

‘Tall, handsome, charming, generous, caring, muscular, wealthy, kind to children and little furry animals’. God, sometimes I wish I was all these things. It would certainly make this dating thing a lot easier. I haven’t even travelled much, and I wouldn’t know one end of a scuba from another. However, for a number of reasons (most of which, sadly, escape me at the moment) I could be a bit of a catch, especially if your thing is older, grey, balding men who don’t understand the world and spend far too much time thinking about it, reading about it, and talking rubbish about it after a few drinks. I love my children, reading and sport (not usually in that order) and I’d like to meet somebody who is warm, funny and who perhaps marches through life to the beat of a drum the rest of us will never hear. I thank you.

About his ideal match

Apologies for no photo (yet), me and technology have never really got on, I still have one of those large cameras you mount on a tripod with a black blanket you go under at the back whilst holding one of those flash light things. WIl add a photo as soon as I’ve worked out how to. Meantime fair to say I’m no Brad Pitt (yeah right Ray, you can say that again) but equally I’d like to think i’m not exactly Frankenstein’s monster either. Maybe somewhere in-betweenish.

Otherwise, as above.

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Barnet, London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
61
Star sign:
Scorpio
Height:
5' 9" (175cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Bald
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
HR / Recruitment
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
Ask me later
Other languages:
English; French; Italian
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district NW2 (London)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
45 - 60
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Generous; Independent; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Friendliness; Humility
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
Something my (grand)mother made me.
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
It's a distant memory
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Body hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; News; Sport
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Card games; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
American Football; Athletics; Backgammon; Boxing; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Pool; Rowing; Snooker; Table Tennis
Food
Cooking:
I have to cook
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Time online:
Once or twice a week
Take drugs:
Never
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Finally writing that novel
Feelings about using Smooth Singles:
Nervous; Hopeful
Honesty:
Very