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About her
I am now retired after working in the NHS for many years. I have grown up children and find now that I am widowed, I have time on my hands. I'm a positive person and I like to keep active. Weekends away and discovering new places together would be a great bonus.
About her ideal match
A caring and considerate man who wants to be in an exclusive relationship. Definitely not married or in a relationship.
Someone local so that it would be easier to arrange spontaneous activities together.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea (Westcliff on Sea), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
72 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; A short-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district SS0 (Westcliff-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
White |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Soap operas |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Shopping; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer); Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |