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Maybemike

47 – Chichester, West Sussex, England

Creative Writer/Web Designer/Poet

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In His Own Words

About him

I'm a creative, engaging, intelligent, thoughtful and kind person who loves good conversation, music, theatre, good food and wine and love learning new things. I don't have much materially in life and have had to navigate several set-backs but they have made me a better person and enriched my life. I've written about some of that on my blog, Heart of Presence.

I dislike selfishness, cruelty and greed and am more likely to warm to a compassionate hearted type than a competitive and coldly driven person.

I've recently begun running after completing a couch to 5k challenge and have re-discovered the joy of walking in the countryside here in Sussex and of gentle yoga stretching. (That was in 2020 actually! In July 2023 I started training with CrossFit and pushing myself beyond what I thought capable!)

I have been practicing meditation and Present Moment Awareness for the past 10 years and have a spiritual outlook on life but not connected to any dogma or one religious faith. I like to follow current affairs and take note of what is happening in our national and international politics.

I write poetry and sometimes perform as well as running my own small web design and management service, based from home. In 2021 I helped to set up a spoken word open-mic charity and also now work part time for a charity that helps people explore Meditation and Spiritual Practice.

About his ideal match

I'd like to meet someone who is generally centred and calm in their approach to life, perhaps even methodical. I'm looking to share the rest of my life with someone and so it would be important that we had some shared interests and a respect for our own unique way of doing things.

I certainly don't want to meet someone 'just like me'. Quite the opposite. I'd like to meet someone who would challenge me to move out of my comfort zones and to grow as a person and I'd hope I could do the same for them.

A sense of humour is really important and an ability to laugh at oneself and to know when to not take life too seriously.

I'd love to cook with my partner, to share the chores of life and to enjoy the simple things together: films and programmes on television/Netflix etc, walks in nature or the city, picnics at the park, Sunday mornings with coffee and the papers, weekends away (at home or abroad - there's much of England, Ireland, Scotland and Wales I would dearly love to explore), reading together (I love to read aloud) and I'd love to work well as a team with my partner.. making plans and making a life together.

I'd quite like to meet someone confident, assertive and self assured. Someone who is genuinely themselves and happy to be so. I'm a little spoon and bottom bunk, so a big spoon would be a good fit. :)

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Chichester, West Sussex, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
47
Star sign:
Scorpio
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Hazel
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Struggling
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district PO19 (Chichester)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
27 - 47
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Light
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Acting; Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Bored to death
Sports:
Running; Tennis; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Family size:
I've got sisters
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Feelings about using Smooth Singles:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely