In His Own Words
About him
I like travelling, meeting people and new experiences and it would be great to do these things with someone else. Not looking to marry or to live with someone permanently. Outwith that, a fun and caring relationship would be great. My varied work at the moment means that I am peripatetic. I appreciate consideration and politeness in people, can't abide bad manners. I enjoy keeping fit (mainly running and gym work nowadays). I also enjoy a variety of entertainment; particularly music and films, and am slowly learning to play the guitar. I also enjoy a wide variety of food, particularly with a glass of wine. Happy to sit down with a good book, or as now - challenge myself with trying to learn another language. I like animals, wouldn't mind getting back into the saddle again after many years away from horse riding. I have lived and worked abroad a lot, as I was in the Army. However, still consider the UK my home.
Not sure how friends would describe me; perhaps as a mostly friendly and considerate person, who enjoys others' company, but is also content with himself. My outlook on life is that I'm more appreciative today of the natural world, less of politics.
About his ideal match
A fun partner would be someone who doesn't take themselves (or me) too seriously, enjoys similar activities: sport, travel, films and music for example. These are activities I would like to share.
I think mutual respect and tolerance would make a relationship work, particularly with someone who is 'warm and interesting'.
A deal breaker would be someone who does not look after themselves physically or mentally, or does not take care of their appearance. I have tried to be as accurate as possible about myself. Although, I ought to update some of my photographs from two or three years ago - I really have not changed. The main photograph was taken recently on 12/11/23.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Pulborough, West Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Italian; Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
59 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Independent; Loyal; Realistic; Sensible; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Latin; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Educational; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Horse Riding; Running; Swimming; Triathlon; Weight training; Windsurfing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |