In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a positive person and want someone like minded. We are all of an age where we have had our share of curve balls. I’m not interested in someone who has become bitter or a pessimist.
I like what those situations have taught me about myself and others, they have given me depth of character, empathy and compassion.
Family and friends mean the world to me. Music and laughter are food for my soul. I’m confident but not arrogant, love to chat but understand the importance of having one mouth and two ears. I have a lot of energy and a zest for life, I’m 55 years young. I take pride in the way I look but would much rather be out having fun than spending hours in front of the mirror. I’m looking for an adult relationship that is built on communication, respect, trust, fun, laughter, honesty. I like glamping/festivals or a romantic weekend away. Love travel both near and far. I like a man that is grown up enough to have both male and female friends (how else would you ever gain a true perspective). So if you still love life, excited about the years to come are positive, kind and caring, reach out. We never know where it might lead, even a new friend is a treasure and a delight. However if I’m not your cup of tea I wish you happiness and I believe we will all find what we are looking for, all the best on your quest for love and companionship. 🙂
About her ideal match
Variety is the spice of life. They will need to be up for adventure and experiencing new things both big and small. Open minded, someone who doesn’t believe in hate are compassionate, romantic, honest, willing, open to compromise, kind loving and tactile. Enjoy having fun whether it’s cuddling up, watching a movie, a gentle walk holding hands or romantic weekend away. Must love music, loves to laugh and dance. Have a great sense of humour and wiling to embrace all of life’s riches both big and small. Would be nice if they enjoyed gardening, boot/antique fairs, long walks and sunsets.
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About her
Country of origin: |
New Zealand | |
Location: |
Canterbury, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district CT20 (Folkestone) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
51 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
French; Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
White |
Hair style: |
Long; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; The arts; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Dance; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |