In His Own Words
About him
I'm interested in expanding my life experiences. I've had a long relationship and two over one year so like most people my age I have baggage. Life is short. Join me for fun days out exploring new places and cultures to look forward to, yet playful during the weeks to make them pass easier. I love a parkrun and football away days. I like being healthy and healthy is sexy to me. I play Padel weekly yet will also do a pub quiz and I know the odd drink alleviates stress as well. I hope pals find me reliable, fun, family orientated, generous and playful as well as sensible and professional when its needed. 
I don't do any extremism, whether its drink/drug habits, smoking or politics/religious beliefs. Over to you X
About his ideal match
My perfect match will be similar age with similar upbringing (Working to Middle class). Be healthy, I am not worried about physical attributes as long as you are healthy with what you have, although attraction is important if relationship will work. Someone who is good in company, not a swearer (unless its the only way) and non-smoking. Someone with positive outlook who is still wanting to live life to the full. I enjoy theatre and shows for big ocassions and weekends away in the UK or city breaks, especially if a Parkrun or other activity is planned. I work in London so love getting away from congested areas when not working, even if its just a quaint garden at yours ?
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About him
Country of origin: | 
							United Kingdom | |
Location: | 
							Redhill (Merstham), Surrey, England | |
Gender: | 
							Male | |
Age: | 
							56 | |
Star sign: | 
							Gemini | |
Height: | 
							5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: | 
							Average | |
Looks: | 
							Above Average | |
Hair colour: | 
							Greying | |
Eye colour: | 
							Blue | |
Relationship Status: | 
							Single | |
Looking for: | 
							Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: | 
							Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: | 
							No | |
Daily diet: | 
							Eat most things | |
Smoking: | 
							Never | |
Drinking: | 
							Occasionally | |
Education: | 
							Secondary | |
Occupation: | 
							Public sector | |
Income: | 
							Enough | |
Ethnicity: | 
							White/Caucasian | |
Home language: | 
							English | |
Other languages: | 
							Ask me later | |
Religion: | 
							Spiritual, but not religious | 
About his ideal match
Country of origin: | 
							Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: | 
							Within 20 miles of postcode district RH1 (Redhill) | ||
Gender: | 
							Female | ||
Age range: | 
							42 - 60 | ||
Star sign: | 
							Any | ||
Height: | 
							4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 6" (168cm) | ||
Body type: | 
							Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: | 
							Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: | 
							Dark Brown; Black; Greying | ||
Eye colour: | 
							Any | ||
Has a photo: | 
							Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: | 
							Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: | 
							No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: | 
							No | ||
Daily diet: | 
							Any | ||
Smoking: | 
							Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: | 
							Occasionally | ||
Education: | 
							Any | ||
Occupation: | 
							Any | ||
Income: | 
							Any | ||
Ethnicity: | 
							Any | ||
Home language: | 
							Any | ||
Other languages: | 
							Any | ||
Religion: | 
							Any | 
- Not important at all
 - Slightly important
 - Moderately important
 - Decidedly important
 - Non-negotiable
 
More about him
Sense of humour: | 
							Irreverent | 
Intelligence: | 
							Intelligent | 
Ruled by: | 
							The heart | 
Party behaviour: | 
							An average mingler | 
Personality traits: | 
							Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy | 
Valued qualities: | 
							Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness | 
Fashion sense: | 
							Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) | 
Favourite clothing: | 
							Shorts & a T-shirt | 
Favourite colour: | 
							Blue | 
Hair style: | 
							Short; Well-behaved | 
Eyesight: | 
							I wear glasses only when reading | 
Facial hair: | 
							I'm clean-shaven | 
Body hair: | 
							Average | 
Date activities: | 
							A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum | 
Music preferences: | 
							Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock | 
Reading: | 
							I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally | 
Books: | 
							(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction | 
TV habits: | 
							I watch television most days | 
TV programmes: | 
							Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport | 
Movie frequency: | 
							Occasionally or irregularly | 
Movie preferences: | 
							Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance | 
Sport involvement: | 
							An active participant | 
Sports: | 
							Athletics; Boxing; Chess; Football (Soccer); Pool; Running; Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking | 
Cooking: | 
							I have to cook | 
Go Out to Eat: | 
							I eat out a few times a month | 
Dietary Restrictions: | 
							I have none | 
Pace of Life: | 
							Organised | 
Time at work: | 
							I always put in overtime | 
Take drugs: | 
							Never | 
Family size: | 
							I've got brothers and sisters | 
Family contact: | 
							I see them when I can | 
Relationship Type: | 
							I'm just plain single | 
Willing to Relocate: | 
							For the right person, to the moon! | 
Animals: | 
							I like animals | 
Pets (Like): | 
							Dog(s) | 
Turn-offs: | 
							Tattoo(s) | 
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