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About him
Where does one start describing oneself, slightly embarrassing to put this into words but here goes…. I consider myself to be kind, caring, considerate, respectful, empathetic, tolerant, courteous, loving, trusting, honest, polite, hate controversy & arrogance, well spoken, & a good listener. Full head of hair, not dyed. Hope to amuse and make the most of life. Have come to terms with becoming a widower coming up to 2 years ago. Active outdoors with land in the New Forest with stables. Self employed since 1996 essentially in magazine publishing then internet publishing with classic & vintage cars since 1977, including working with an international London based auction house, classic & vintage cars also a hobby with several classic & vintage cars since 1975. Run a classic car sales broking business since 2015. Grew up with sailing in Poole harbour, and spent many holidays sailing. Plan to purchase another boat. Enjoy walking lovely black Labrador and now only have one chicken. Enjoy good food, eating out, theatre (just seen Stephen Fry, London West End Theatre), film, point to point, events, weekends away, concerts, recently seen Santana at the 02, and Ozzie Pink Floyd tribute. I know London well as I lived there for 15 years until 1989, enjoy visiting London. Love engaging conversation including business, politics, current affairs the arts, hobbies, travel not necessarily in this order. Have bolt hole on Isle of Wight. I am open to other activities & interests you will no doubt have. Photos taken in 2025, no fibbing, at “The Pig” hotel - that’s not my stuffed bird.
About his ideal match
Would like to meet happy, confident, amusing, self-starter, maybe own business, not minding being independent at times, me not being overly needy and certainly not all the time if you understand me. Like food, eating out, outdoor activities, events, film, theatre, concerts, hobbies, etc. I’m sure there’s much more you are interested in - I’m a good listener!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Lymington (Ringwood / Bournemouth / Poole / New Forest), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district SP6 (Fordingbridge) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Straight; Wild; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Photography; Politics; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Motorsport; Sailing; Shooting; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |