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About her
Ex-professional, now professionally enjoying life. I’ve swapped chasing things for savouring moments — travel with meaning, long walks, good coffee, shared films, and conversations that don’t need shouting over loud music.
I’m loyal to the core and value honesty above all else. If you’re the same, we’ll get along just fine. I’m an introvert by nature — think cosy evenings, family time, and quiet laughter rather than clubs and chaos.
I’m a spiritual person and an absolute animal lover with a Buddhist-leaning approach to life: kindness, presence, and not taking things (or myself) too seriously. My friends would say my best qualities are a pure heart, unwavering loyalty, and a surprisingly decent sense of humour — I agree with at least two of those 😉
I have two children, one still at home (teenager included). They are non-negotiable, wonderful humans. If you can’t love them, you definitely don’t get access to me.
Looking for a lifelong partner — someone to travel with, grow with, laugh with, and enjoy the simple, beautiful bits of life.
About her ideal match
At a calm and confident point in his life, this man feels genuinely content. He’s looking for a serious, loyal partner to enjoy life’s quieter moments at home as well as meaningful adventures around the world.
He’s open-minded and spiritually curious rather than religious, an animal lover at heart, and someone who values a stable, peaceful life — but never a dull one. Smart, witty, and emotionally grounded, he knows what matters and isn’t interested in surface-level connections or wasting time on nonsense.
He’s here for depth, laughter, shared values, and a relationship that actually means something.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Polish | |
Other languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SS3 (Southend-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |