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About him
I’m a quiet, thoughtful sort who enjoys good company and a long conversation, but I’m at my best with a little space to reflect. After a career in finance and property that took me between London and Riyadh, I’ve reached a point where I can lean into the things I’ve always loved — art, architecture, and the built environment around us.
Travel is where I come alive. I’ve lived and worked across different cultures, and the places that stay with me are always where the wild meets the urban: a gallery in the morning, a mountain path in the afternoon. An ideal trip mixes culture, history, and a good long walk — and in winter, a few days skiing down a quiet slope.
I keep fit with walking and a bit of dancing when the mood takes me, and I’m just as happy wandering a museum as I am pottering in a garden. I’m looking for warmth, laughter, and a genuine connection with someone to share it all with.
About his ideal match
A kind, curious soul who’s secure in herself and open in how she communicates. Someone who loves art, travel, and the outdoors, and who finds joy in both adventure and the quieter moments. I’d love a partner to explore the world with — and to weather its harder turns together.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Watford (Hertfordshire), Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Hindi; Other | |
Religion: |
Hindu |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district WD24 (Watford) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
57 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
English; Hindi | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Short; Straight; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Electronic Dance Music; New Age; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Sculpting; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Skiing; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fast food; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |