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About him
I'm the guy who believes the best moments in life happen when you’re laughing so hard you can’t breathe, or when a quiet evening turns into a deep conversation that lasts until sunrise.
I’m driven in my career but never let it define me—I’d rather spend my energy planning weekend adventures, trying a new recipe.
I value kindness, curiosity, and a great sense of humor (bonus points if you can keep up with my sarcasm). I’m equally happy dressing up for a night out as I am staying in with takeout, a bottle of wine, and a playlist we argue over adding songs to.
Looking for someone who’s independent, affectionate, and up for both spontaneous road trips and lazy Sunday mornings. If you love good coffee, witty banter, and someone who’ll always save you the last bite—let’s talk.
About his ideal match
She’s someone whose kindness lights up a room—genuine, compassionate, and the type who notices when someone needs a little extra care. Empathy isn’t just a word to her; it’s how she moves through the world, whether it’s listening without judgment, helping a stranger, or being there for the people she loves.
She’s confident in who she is, has her own passions and goals, and isn’t afraid to share her thoughts (even if we don’t always agree—I love a good healthy debate). A great sense of humor is a must—someone who can laugh at life’s absurdities, tease me gently, and appreciate my dry wit in return.
I’m drawn to warmth and emotional openness: affection comes naturally to her, whether it’s a hug after a long day, a thoughtful text, or planning something sweet just because. Bonus points if she loves deep conversations, cozy nights in as much as exploring new places, and isn’t afraid to be a little silly sometimes.
Above all, I’m looking for a true partner—someone supportive, respectful, and ready to build something meaningful together, one kind moment at a time.
If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you.
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About him
Country of origin: |
Nigeria | |
Location: |
Maidstone (Medway), Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
35 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district ME4 (Chatham) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
24 - 46 | ||
Star sign: |
Capricorn | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Horror; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Photography; Politics; Singing; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer) |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I moved to be away from them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |