In His Own Words
About him
Hi, - well, that’s another year gone and l’m still single, which for me meant Christmas alone, always tough.
So, l’m looking for someone to put that right.
I can cook pretty well, mostly Italian style dishes or Indian. Occasionally l’ll go vegetarian.
My interests are mainly cultural, the Arts, Theatre, music, - being retired from an art career now, painting and drawing occupiers my day, but not essentially.
I like getting out and meeting people, l have very social instincts, living alone is fine, but it has its limits.
Being able to share every day with someone you like being with is my preferred option.
Divorced, l long while back now, but still hanging in there hoping to find someone for that emotional connection we all need.
You learn from your mistakes, they can be hard lessons, but it’s important to grow from the experience.
Having not been any rush, l’m now seeking, in my flush of older age, to find someone wanting companionship like myself.
I’m good at adapting, the secret being interested in other people, their own pursuits and dreams.
Becoming outside yourself and part of their world.
I’m in serious pursuit now of that one person who will complete my life, not a tall order, since l don’t have any expectations, if that person exists, then that is enough and more than l dare wish for.
So, not here for a pen friend, or an email buddy.
Only looking for the real thing, the commitment that a loving relationship brings and the rewards that go with it.
Had my fill of flings, there’s nothing more shallow, l can honestly say that’s something l’ve never sought.
So, if you seriously want a kind, empathetic man in your life, fill it with daily joy and laughter, be appreciated for who you are and feel assured a loving hug will be there when you need it, then you’ll also know what l’m looking for.
It’s a new year, let’s not waste it, let’s meet!
Photos, Christmas December 2025
Ps, - l’m looking to re-locate, new vistas, new foundations, wherever happiness takes me.
About his ideal match
Running out of time, will come back to this, but l’m not one to be prescriptive, - l remain open minded and hopeful, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bourton-on-the-Water, Gloucestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
60 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long; Straight; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Jazz; Latin; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Chess; Cricket; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Table Tennis; Walking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
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