In His Own Words
About him
Been separated for a while after 22 years of marriage. Trying to get back into the dating scene. I miss doing all those things that are better shared. I live in Rayleigh, but as not many have heard of the town, I just say near Southend.
Dad to two amazing boys, one is 18 and at Warwick University and the other is 13 and moving with Mum to America. 🫤
I enjoy quite nights in with a movie, popcorn and a cuppa, but just as happy to go out shopping or to a restaurant. Not a huge drinker though.
For transparency, I'm not a dog person. Sorry. Love cats though. Definitely a cat person. Also, not a big fan of driving. Just being honest and putting that out there.
Photos are recent. I'm sometimes told I don't look my age. I don't always act my age either. Being silly and working with children keeps me young. Hoping to meet some of the same religion.
About his ideal match
Would love to meet someone of the sameone of a similar height and religion (but doesn't have to be religious).
I love cats but I'm really not into dogs, sorry. Also, not a fan of driving so I'm not looking for someone that would want me to take them on long country drives.
My work takes up a lot of my weekend time so flexibility would be great.
I love staying home with a movie and popcorn as much as going out so my ideal person would be somebody who likes to cuddle up on the couch occasionally.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Rochford (Rayleigh), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Struggling | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SS6 (Rayleigh) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 56 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Jewish |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intellectually Challenged |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Crime |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Documentary |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer) |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
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