In Her Own Words
About her
I have a mischievous side to my nature that needs a partner in crime. Ready to explore new places, experiences, sounds and souls. Just not too raucous and only occasionally after 10pm 😄
I find peace and joy immersing myself in nature, a really good book or in the face of breathtaking beauty - natural or created.
The flip side of me wants to throw myself into music that makes your heart soar or your insides vibrate!!!
About her ideal match
Someone emotionally intelligent and self aware. Values friendship, family and the companionship of a dog. Doesnt take themselves too seriously. Wants to build a relationship based on shared values, trust, fun and adventures.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leeds, Yorkshire - West, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district LS12 (Leeds) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Sarcastic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Card games; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting |
Sports: |
Hiking; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Smooth Singles: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
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