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In His Own Words
About him
Naturally reserved at first, but if you coax me, I have a tendency to become cheeky once comfortable. I’m a deep listener with a dry sense of humour, fascinated by psychology, and firmly believe the best people don’t fit into a neat box, why would you?
Happiest outdoors, usually found seeking fresh scenery, followed by a properly relaxed evening. Family keeps me grounded, and I prefer quality company over everything else.
If two people genuinely click, I think you just make the effort. I'd rather find the right person a little further away than settle for the wrong one around the corner.
I’d like to meet someone special, but I’m also open to making new friends—someone to share a few laughs with, enjoy days out and simply have company to go and do things together. Sometimes a good friendship is worth finding too.
I’d rather have one real conversation than a hundred messages.
About his ideal match
I’m drawn to people who are kind, genuine, and deeply curious about life. I don't look for perfection—I’d much rather meet someone real who values growth, depth, and a partner who can gently challenge them intellectually. A willingness to laugh at yourself also goes a long way with me.
Ideally, you’re affectionate, playful, and have a slightly mischievous streak, but you also value emotional maturity. For me, the best relationships are built on trust and an easy connection where being together simply feels right.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leicester, Leicestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Political / Government | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Hindu |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district LE4 (Leicester) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
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